About Me

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Feeling stuck — in life, in love, or just in your own head?
You’re not alone.

Maybe you’re overwhelmed, misunderstood, or riding an emotional rollercoaster that doesn’t seem to stop. Maybe you don’t even feel like you anymore.

Whether it’s your relationship, your anxiety, or your inner critic — I help individuals and couples move from “what is happening?!” to “okay, I’ve got this.”

Ready for some real relief (and maybe a little joy, too)? Let’s talk. You’ve just met your biggest ally.

I’m Devon DuBois... I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#87052) based in sunny San Diego, California. I am a native San Diegan and I am passionate about traveling, art, culture, live music, and relationships. I am so PASSIONATE about relationships, that my practice is centered around them.

“I am an EMDR nerd, love-and-bonding specialist, & empath/helper. I work with humans who feel a lot (hi, same) and want more connection, less chaos, and maybe fewer emotional plot twists before bed. I help couples make sense of big feelings and stop relationship spirals in their tracks — all through the magic of EFT (and a little humor). I also work with people to release what their bodies have been carrying for too long — together, we turn down the volume on old wounds using EMDR. Therapist by day; mama, kitchen experimenter, and vinyl vibe curator by night. I cook with love, listen in analog, and always stop to pet the dog.”

— Devon DuBois

I work with people who feel anxious, sad, heavy, disconnected, or just not quite themselves — and together, we journey to a place where they feel seen, steady, and more like home in their own skin.

I help people and couples feel more grounded, connected, and safe — both with each other and within themselves. I’m here to walk alongside folks through life’s big changes — in ways that feel grounded, uplifting, and hopeful.

Working through and healing in/after the heavy seasons can be one of the most freeing and empowering things we do. When you feel supported, connected, and more solid within yourself (and in your relationship), you have more capacity to manage the ups and downs of life.

Whether you're looking to untangle old patterns, heal what’s been holding you back, or strengthen your relationship — I’m here for it. Reach out, get comfy (yes, sweatpants are welcome), and let’s take that first step together. Your future self might just thank you.

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My Personal Journey...

There was a time in my life when I was feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and just plain fearful of what my future held.

"Why won’t these feelings go away? What is happening to me?"

These are just a few of the questions many of us wrestle with- and I was no different.

I struggled to find relief. I struggled to find myself. And I struggled to overcome many difficult life transitions.

I had more feelings than I knew what to do with and it was incredibly scary.

I was 16.

My life changed when I discovered a way to overcome my fears and create a version of me that I loved.

What happened?

Well, I saw a therapist.

I knew I wanted professional help outside of my family and friends. I needed a trusted ally to help me overcome my struggles and support me along the way.

I realized that I could not “do it alone”-- I realized, that I didn’t have to. To be human is to need others and that is not a weakness, but rather a strength.

Seeing a therapist positively impacted my life in so many ways. Through therapy, I began to have a deeper understanding of my feelings and what I was experiencing. I was able to find happiness, access support from my loved ones, and create positive and lasting change.

What I learned about myself through therapy, not only benefited me on a personal level, but on a professional level as well.

When I put on my therapist hat for the first time, I just knew I could make a difference. I knew because I’d been there — felt the weight of grief and struggle myself — and I understood how to meet people’s pain with real empathy. Most of all, I believed in therapy’s power to help, because I’ve seen it work.

My Professional Journey...

In 2010, I entered grad school. In my first quarter, I discovered Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). This model of therapy that was so congruent with my worldview that it was almost scary. I remember going to my first externship where I met one of the founders of EFT, Sue Johnson. Everything she said during those four days really resonated with me. She was saying things that I already believed to be true- things such as: “we are attachment creatures;” “learn to reach for the people you love;” “we depend on our loved ones to support us emotionally and be a secure base as we venture into the world to learn and explore;" “The more we sense that we are effectively connected, the more autonomous and separate we can be.”

Emotionally focused therapy (eft)

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a research-backed, attachment-based approach that helps people move from disconnection and misunderstanding to feeling seen, supported, and securely connected. By getting to the heart of core emotions and attachment needs, EFT helps create stronger, safer relationships and lasting change.

EFT appears to move couples from distress to recovery in 10-20 sessions for 70-75% of cases, and creates improvements in 90% of couples coming in for therapy.

Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (emdr)

EMDR is an evidence-based therapy shown to reduce PTSD symptoms by 77-90% (American Psychiatric Association, 2017). By helping your brain safely process difficult memories, EMDR offers relief without the need to relive the pain repeatedly. This effective approach supports lasting healing and renewed hope for many.

It’s not just for PTSD — EMDR can help with all kinds of trauma, from big “T” events like accidents or loss, to everyday “little t” stresses like ongoing anxiety, self-doubt, or difficult memories. By helping your brain safely process these experiences, EMDR reduces symptoms across the board and supports lasting healing and renewed hope. EMDR helps clear trauma stored in the body, allowing you to access a more grounded, adult perspective and create lasting, positive change.

Experience

(Feel free to hit the snooze button).

For the past 15 years, I’ve had the privilege of walking alongside couples and individuals here in San Diego. Along the way, I found my home in two powerful approaches — EFT and EMDR — and I’ve poured my heart into learning and living these models because I’ve seen just how life-changing they can be.

I have attended, worked, and organized multiple EFT trainings in various cities. I was employed by TRI-EFT (the training and research center for Emotionally Focused Therapy in San Diego) for five years, helping EFT trainers manage the clinic and coordinate various trainings in California, Arizona, and Colorado.

I am a Certified EFT Therapist and Supervisor, recognized by the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy. I am also an EMDRIA Certified Therapist™ recognized by the EMDR International Association. I’ve been a presenter for the United States Navy, MOPS, The California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT), and The National Charity League (NCL).

Alongside my therapy work, I also support other therapists as a supervisor and consultant — helping them grow their confidence and deepen their skills in the EFT model. As an ICEEFT Certified Emotionally Focused Supervisor, I bring a grounded, real-world understanding of experiential, attachment-based, and trauma-informed care. I’m all about helping therapists feel more empowered and confident while working with couples.

I previously served on the San Diego Center for EFT Committee (SDC EFT) board as a (Co)Marketing and Public Relations Manager.

I’ve worked with couples, families, and individuals from all walks of life. In my experience, EFT is incredibly effective for couples, helping them build stronger bonds and deeper connection. For individuals, EMDR offers a powerful way to process past wounds and move forward with greater ease. Whether you’re seeking couples therapy or individual support in San Diego or California (virtual), these approaches can make a real difference.

Becoming a therapist wasn’t exactly a quick coffee break — it took years of studying everything from attachment to the quirks of the human mind. I’ve spent so many hours nerding out on what makes us tick, all while learning from some of the world’s top EFT pros. Now, I’m grateful to use what I’ve learned to support others on their own journey toward healing and connection.

I’m finally doing what feels right — and it feels good. It means the world that people invite me into their lives with all their messy, real moments. And I’m honored when couples trust me with their hopes, fears, and everything in between.

My personal journey combined with my professional experience shaped who I am today—a person passionate about making the world a little brighter, one life at a time.

Now, I’m here to help you find your own happiness.

The first step? Easy.

Just hit the button below, and let’s take this journey together — one step, one moment, one breakthrough at a time.

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Specialty Training and Experience:

Certified Emotionally Focused (EFCT/EFFT/EFIT) Therapist- recognized by The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT); by way of the original ICEEFT Certification track & standards
Certified EFT (EFCT/EFFT/EFIT) Supervisor- recognized by ICEEFT
EMDRIA Certified Therapist™ - recognized by EMDRIA- The EMDR International Association
Over 3,000 clinical hours under supervision by multiple EFT supervisors and trainers
EFIT Essentials with Sue Johnson and Leanne Campbell, 2024
Mastering Skills and Overcoming Challenges in EFIT: A Consultation Process with Sue Johnson and Leanne Campbell, 2024
Emotionally Focused Therapy, Externship, 2011
Emotionally Focused Therapy, Externship, 2012
Emotionally Focused Therapy, Core Skills, Modules 1-5, 2012
Emotionally Focused Therapy, Core Skills, Modules 1-4, 2014
Completed 46 CE hours and 10.5 case consultation hours of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Basic Training with Master Trainer, Deany Laliotis. Exceeds EMDRIA’s requirements with more hours dedicated to supervised practice sessions and case consultation (2022)
Healing the Wounds of Attachment and Rebuilding Self, Advanced Clinical EMDR course, with Deany Laliotis; (2023)
The Craft of EMDR: Building on the Basics; EMDR Therapy Intermediate Course with Deany Laliotis - 32.50 hours (2023)
Thinking AIP and Using EMDR: An Advanced Interactive Course - Presented by Deany Laliotis, LICSW- 12 hours (2025)
Broken Bonds: Healing Attachment Injuries with EFT
EFFT Essentials Emotionally Focused Family Therapy with Gail Palmer and Jim Furrow (2025)
Mastering Skills and Overcoming Challenges in EFFT: A Consultation Process with Gail Palmer and Jim Furrow (2025)
EFT Supervision Course with Lisa Palmer-Olsen, George Faller, & Marlene Best (01/2024)
Supervision of Supervision Group for EFT with Lisa Palmer-Olsen, Jim Furrow, & Marlene Best (2023-present)
EFT in Action Training
Mastering first sessions with EFT
Alt-Sexuality, Kink, and Ethical non-monogamous relationship training
Critical Issues in Child and Adolescent Mental Health (CICAMH) Conference
Somatic Experiencing (SE) with Dr. Peter Levine
R-EMDR Master Certification Group with the Center for Excellence (ongoing)
Certified PREPARE-ENRICH Instructor & Facilitator (Couples marriage preparation and enrichment), (2013)
Worked at the Training and Research Institute for Emotionally Focused Therapy in San Diego (2010-2015)
A Soulful Warrior’s six session Journey to Transformation through AEDP with Jerry Lamagna (2020)
Navy SEAL Foundation Impact Forum (2018, 2019)